Understanding the nature of things in depth makes things very easy when dealing with them correctly, and to solve any problem; it is necessary to know its truth, causes, motives and the surrounding environment, and it is not much different when raising teenage girls. Many of the girls’ educational problems between them and their fathers and mothers arise as a result of a lack of understanding of girls’ psychology, which may reflect negatively on the role and effort that fathers play towards girls.

In order not to create a polarization between the role parents are entrusted to play and the ideal concept of education in dealing with adolescent girls, it is necessary to understand the roles and responsibilities that parents must play towards raising boys and girls.

In this brief article, we review some tips for parents that will contribute to building a positive relationship between adolescent girls and parents.

1. Kind words are the key to her heart 

By nature, a woman is an auditory personality who is tempted by gentleness and attracted by the sweetness and softness of words. Many situations may be difficult to solve between a man and a woman, but with simple words mixed with kindness and tenderness, these problems are solved as if they had never been.

Parents must take into account this method when dealing with their teenage families, and realize that adolescence is no longer young, as it is a mentality that is formed, a personality that grows and that sees itself in the near future, mother, wife and housewife… The way to a woman’s heart is her ear. Your request is on the verge of verification and acceptance by women in general and teenage girls in particular when you ask for it with sweet and tender words… and adolescence is like any woman in character and way of treatment.

2) Do not deny the nature of the stage

It is normal that a girl in adolescence goes through a series of hormonal changes that affect all vital body processes, including her psychological health… Do not be surprised by the signs of boredom that she emits towards you, meet her anger with a smile, and her grumpy attitude with a loving and caring way.

3) It’s all about communication

Communication with teenage girls may prevent the occurrence of many unfortunate problems.. Failure to communicate in the long run leads to suppression of feelings and sensations that inevitably come one day and explode, and here can happen unimaginable results; Therefore, mothers should be in constant contact with their daughters, and do not give her the chance to fill her time with wrong people or actions, nor for a reckless boy to play with her ears.

4) Ignore the negatives

During adolescence, try to focus on motivation and encouragement more than paying attention to the negatives, and if it calls for some compliment, that’s okay… This is because the personality of the teenager (boy and girl) share pride and self-esteem, as they always see the distinction in their actions and behavior and do not pay attention to others… Therefore… Motivate her and encourage her and exaggerate with her in words of praise and thank.

5) Dear parents, do not be shy!

Finally, education is a science, and its practice is an art that must be mastered, and a person may be ignorant of how to raise, and a father may not have the skill of containing his children and does not know how to deal with them at a certain stage… Here there is no objection to seeking assistance and advice from specialists with expertise.

This does not mean that you are a failed educator or that you are a mother incapable of handling your daughters’ affairs.

Perhaps there are many examples of this. Who among us forgets the man who complained about his wife to Omar Ibn Al-Khattab, and who forgets the boy whose father complained to the Commander of the Faithful Omar -peace be upon him-

Asking for advice was never a weakness or a deficiency, but rather it is a great moral and wise behavior.